Horseback Riding

Would you like to learn how to ride a horse? People sometimes think it's a matter of siting still in the saddle and steering with the reins like they're driving a car, but it actually takes skill and practice.

In order to have a smooth, pleasurable ride, both horse and rider must be in sync. Rather than just sitting there, when you're riding you need to follow the motion of the horse's body, with your balance centered. Otherwise you'll end up gripping the horse's sides with your thighs and clinging on with your calves, with your heels up and your toes pointing toward the ground.

Not only will this unbalance the horse, he won't have much trust in you while you're on his back. A rider's lack of balance will affect your riding in these ways:

- If you're off balance, you'll fall behind the horse's motion and you'll both feel like you're bouncing all over the place.

- If you lean forward, your center of gravity will be over the horses withers and this will throw both of you off... and if he stops suddenly you may find yourself on the ground.

- If you put too much weight on one side, you'll throw your horse way off and you could actually fall off sideways if he decides to go in the other direction.

When you're off balance, the horse will feel uncomfortable and will try to adjust himself to keep you centered. Some horses can cope with this; others get upset by it and may speed up, moving faster because they are trying to escape the problem. Others may get so confused they stop dead in their tracks. Don't blame the horse if any of these things happen... it's your responsibility to ride correctly.

If you are having difficulty with your horse, always look to yourself and your riding habits first. You may want to ask someone to film you while you're riding, so you can see how you are sitting the horse. It's a always a good idea to take a few lessons and get help with your riding. You and your horse will enjoy your time together much more if you're both comfortable and in balance.